How do I manage sebum?

Is there an effective way to manage sebum?

I have dry skin, but I don't use a sebum-managing treatment on my cheekbones, nose, and chin, so my pores are visible and bother me. I exfoliate and cleanse thoroughly, but I still can't control my sebum production.

I've tried various peeling gels, but if I don't use them for a few days, sebum starts to show in my pores again.

If I exfoliate too much, my skin becomes sensitive and red, so I exfoliate about once every three days, but I get really worried when sebum appears on my chin. I want to get rid of the white sebum that appears when I blow air on my chin.

If you know of any effective sebum management methods, please let me know.