Getting rid of blackheads, a real concern

Lately, I've been dreading looking in the mirror. When I look closely at my nose under bright lights, I see bumps and bumps, making my makeup look flaky and messy. It's really stressful. I used to be able to just cover them up with concealer, but now my pores are even more prominent, so I feel like I need to take better care of them. I've tried various methods on my own, but it's really difficult to get rid of blackheads without irritation and maintaining smooth skin. I've tried rolling my pores with cleansing oil and using face masks, but they quickly return, leaving me feeling frustrated. I'm also worried that I might overexert myself and scar or enlarge my pores. So, I'm trying to establish a proper routine and stick to it. What's the safest and most effective way to get rid of blackheads? People often say diet and cleansing habits are important, but it's been hard to find accurate information that works for me. If you have any secrets for blackhead removal based on your own experience, not advertising, please share them with me. What cosmetics or tools do you usually use when your nose area feels stuffy?