The story of trying to get rid of strawberry nose by peeling off a nose pack and only ending up with enlarged pores (the answer is to melt sebum ;;)

I'm one of those people who gets so stressed out every time I look in the mirror because of the dark blackheads stuck on my nose. ㅠㅠ In the past, I didn't know what to do and bought a nose pack that you could peel off and I would rip it off because it felt so good, but that was the biggest mistake of my life. It felt like the sebum was removed but the space left was empty and my pores had doubled in size? When I put on makeup, it didn't hide it even with primer and I could see all the holes, so it was a total mess ㅡㅡ

So these days, even if my arms feel like they're going to fall off, I always melt them with oil. After showering, when my pores are a bit open, I apply a generous amount of cleansing oil and gently roll them with my ring finger. If I rub them for about 5 minutes while watching TV, something like hard granules will roll around on my fingertips? Haha. That thrill is really amazing. It's like the feeling of all my disgusting sebum coming out.

But this is more important than removing them. I think that if you pad them with cold water and then cool down the nose area with a soothing gel or sheet mask that you've kept in the fridge, the pores won't get bigger again. It's convenient because it removes them and also manages them, but I can't go every day, so I'm fighting like this at home. Sob sob... How do you guys manage blackheads? If you use a separate sebum softener, please recommend it! I think oil alone has its limits ㅠㅠ