Has anyone solved their blackhead and hair problems?

Blackheads are truly a lifelong struggle... Every time I see them stuck in my nose, I want to squeeze them all out, but you know that squeezing actually widens your pores, right? ㅠㅠ I used to use nose strips really often, but at one point, I was shocked to see my pores wide open like holes...

So lately I've been gently melting it out with oil, but even that has its limits ㅠㅠ. Would getting an Aqua Peel at a dermatology clinic help? I'm interested because I heard it extracts sebum without irritation, so could anyone who has tried it please share some reviews? I'm curious if I'll see immediate results after just one session, or if I need to get it regularly haha.

I'm also considering Fraxel, which is said to be good for shrinking pores, but I'm scared because I heard the pain is insane lol. They say it's hard to reverse enlarged pores once they're widened, so I want to start taking care of them before it's too late. Please, experts with blackhead and pore care tips, leave a comment! Please haha.