How do you care for oily-dehydrated skin?

I'm writing this because I have a lot of concerns about my skin.

I do have oily skin with a lot of sebum overall, but,

Seeing how tight my skin feels after washing my face, I think I have combination skin.

It seems like more oil comes to the surface when I focus on moisturizing,

Conversely, if I use it lightly, it feels like the internal dryness gets worse.
I don't know how to set up a basic routine.

Right now, I'm just using toner and lotion.
I'm not even sure if this is correct.

For those of you with oily-dehydrated skin

Basic routines, recommended products, and care methods
Could you let me know how you are doing?