I'm so sick and tired of getting rid of blackheads. Please recommend the ultimate, surefire method.

For years, I have used cleansing oils and nose strips marketed as effective for removing blackheads, but the effects were only temporary. I even tried squeezing them out with my fingers, but it felt like doing so only widened my pores, so now I am afraid to touch them carelessly. I am curious if products that remove blackheads gently without irritation, or treatments like Aqua Peel at a dermatology clinic, can really bring dramatic results. I have heard that tightening pores afterward is more important than simply washing them off; which product was the most effective for you? I am stressed every time I apply makeup because of the uneven texture on my nose, so this time, I really want to succeed in getting rid of blackheads properly. If you know of any personal secrets, proven equipment, or treatments, please let me know so I can protect my nose.