I'm having trouble getting rid of blackheads, so I'm looking for some advice.

Lately, every time I look in the mirror, I'm increasingly aware of the dark sebum on my nose, which has been causing me a lot of stress. I used to think my skin was clear just by washing my face, but now I'm afraid to look in the mirror under the bathroom lights. Squeezing them out with my hands feels like it'll just make my skin red and leave scars, so I've decided to start by carefully removing my blackheads. I bought a popular cleansing oil and rubbed it in every evening, but I haven't seen much of a difference, which is frustrating. I'm also hesitant to use a nose pack, which can be harsh, for fear it might make my pores more prominent. Every night, I'm deeply troubled by the question of how I can achieve this goal: gently removing blackheads without irritation. I want to regain my old, smooth nose with consistent care, but blackhead removal! Is there anyone here who has seen a definite effect? ​​I'd really appreciate it if you could share your experiences or tips on how you meticulously care for your nose area.