I'm thinking of getting a lifting procedure.. Inquiry

Lately, my skin has lost elasticity at a rapid pace, and it feels like my facial contours are sagging... Every time I look in the mirror, tears well up at my sagging nasolabial folds and jawline... It feels like I'm truly on the path of accelerated aging after giving birth hahaha.

People around me have recommended lifting procedures like Ulthera or Shurink, so I'm looking into them, but there are so many types of treatments and it's so complicated that I have absolutely no idea what's what... Which procedure would be most effective for my skin condition and concerns? My skin is on the thinner side and a bit sensitive.

How long will it take for the bruising and swelling to go down? Also, I'm worried it might be too painful. I've heard so many people around me say it hurts, so I'm really concerned. How often should I get it done again?

Please reply~~