Genetic large pores... How should I manage them?

My father has large pores all over his face, and like him, my nose pores started getting larger as I entered puberty. I always thought taking care of my skin wouldn't make them worse, so I dedicated myself to taking care of them. But as I grew older, I realized my skin was becoming just like his. ㅠ My nose and the sides of my nose, where I secrete a lot of sebum, had large pores, but my forehead and the outer corners of my cheeks were smooth. Now, even on my forehead and cheeks, where I don't produce oil, my pores are getting larger. I've spent a lot of money on cosmetics, trying every product that's supposed to help reduce pores, but nothing seems to have worked. Now, I don't know how to manage my pores. If I'm genetically predisposed to having large pores, will my pores eventually grow larger no matter how I try? How should someone like me manage my pores?