I'm really worried about my skin pores. What kind of treatment is good?

I have been losing sleep over skin concerns, so I am posting this to ask for advice from the community members. Until my late 20s, I don't think I had many pore worries as long as I controlled my sebum properly, but since entering my 30s, I have started to noticeably see the pores in the butterfly zone (around the nose and cheeks) stretching vertically.

Even when I carefully apply primer and foundation, the makeup settles severely into my pores after just a short while, making me dread touch-ups. Every time I look in the mirror with a bare face after washing, my skin texture is so rough and uneven that it really lowers my self-esteem.

I did some research and found that treatments like Butterfly Zone Fraxel, Potenza, or Juvelook Needle RF are frequently recommended for improving pores and skin texture. Are there any treatments or skin boosters that have genuinely worked for you among those with similar concerns? I am prepared to tolerate some pain or downtime (redness). Please share your honest reviews of products you paid for yourself or any skincare tips.