Resolve to get rid of blackheads when meticulous care is needed

This morning, while washing my face, I paused for a moment, staring at myself in the mirror. My skin used to be so smooth, but now the first thing I noticed were the dark marks around my nose. Makeup feels irritated, and my pores are so prominent that I'm dreading looking in the mirror these days. I knew I couldn't continue this way, so I decided to take on the challenge of getting rid of my blackheads. I used to think a nose pack would be enough, but now my skin feels thinner, so I'm avoiding harsh methods. I tried gently melting my pores with oil and opening them with a warm towel, but it didn't quite work as well as I'd hoped, and I was frustrated. I worry that pushing too hard might actually make my pores even wider. I'm curious to know how everyone is implementing their blackhead removal process. I know consistency is the key, but it's not as easy as I'd like. My friends are going to professional treatments, but I want to find a method that I can do comfortably and effectively at home to get rid of my blackheads. Do you have any special tips for regaining a smooth nose without irritating your skin? If you could share even a little advice on what products you use after washing your face, it would be incredibly helpful.