I'm exhausted from trying to fill in the blackheads and sebum clogging my pores. What is the right treatment in the end?

I am stressed every day because of dark blackheads and the endless sebum production.

If left untreated for just one day, the sebum inside my pores fills up white and hardens, making my skin texture rough like sandpaper. Even though I try extracting it with peel-off masks or squeezing it out every weekend, the vicious cycle just repeats endlessly as the sebum fills the emptied pores again. I'm actually scared because forcibly squeezing out the sebum seems to only widen the pores and damage the surrounding skin barrier, leaving it red and irritated.

I wonder if the procedure is worth the money for shrinking pores.

Is there anyone out there who, like me, suffered from enlarged pores caused by excessive sebum and clogged blackheads, and then saw significant results in pore cleansing and size reduction through dermatological procedures?