Can I manage pores, sebum, and dullness on sensitive skin?

My skin tends to get red and sting easily, and I am writing to inquire because I am also concerned about my pores, sebum, and skin tone. Looking at the attached photo, you can see sebum and enlarged pores around my nose, and my cheeks have a mix of redness and dullness, making my skin look uneven.

If I cleanse for a long time or use exfoliating products to remove sebum, my nose and cheeks immediately turn red, and in severe cases, it feels stinging even when applying basic skincare products.

But if I do nothing to avoid irritation, the sebum on my nose keeps building up and my pores seem to become more noticeable.

For such sensitive skin, should I start with soothing and moisturizing care rather than getting pore or skin tone treatments right away?

I am also wondering if the intensity of care for the nose and cheeks can be adjusted differently depending on my skin condition. Rather than strong treatments that yield quick results, I would like to consult on a method to gradually refine my skin while minimizing redness or dryness.